Early Signs She’s Wife Material

You can’t ever be sure early on in a relationship that you’ll end up marrying the woman you’re dating. Well, unless you’re a celebrity and get married a week after you start dating as a publicity stunt. But for us normal folk, we can only hope a young relationship lasts forever…or at least until divorce! However, there are some early signs that, if the relationship lasts, she would make an excellent wife. Those signs are…

She has her act together

She has a job, doesn’t live with her folks, and takes good care of her kids (if she has kids). She doesn’t have a history of getting in trouble with the law and hasn’t accumulated massive debt, which she has no ability to pay back. The reason I bring up her finances is because some women are gold diggers. If they have an insane amount of debt and no way to pay it off on their own, you have to be cautious with her. Don’t let a woman take advantage of you. I will only get involved with women that have their act together.

I’m not looking for a woman that gets into fights, deals drugs, neglects her children, or still lives with Mommy and Daddy. I want a real, grown up woman that is going somewhere in life. She doesn’t have to be rich or even have a high-paying job. I don’t need or want her money. I just want to know that she’s not a bum with no aspirations or motivation.

You are looking for a woman online date

You are looking for a woman online date

You can have fun around her

Despite the ridiculous divorce rates in the United States anymore, I would assume you’re hoping “till death do us part” holds true. My brother was recently married and we were talking what he loves most about his wife. He mentioned that they can always have a good time together. They have so much in common that they’re always able to do things together.

Once you’re married, you’re going to spend most of your time away from work with her. Even when you go out with friends, she’ll usually tag along. That’s just how it works in most marriages. It’s very important that you have a lot in common and enjoy many of the same activities. If you don’t, it will be hard to have a long-lasting relationship with her. Eventually you’ll get bored of each other.

 Divorce rates in the all world

Divorce rates in the all world

You have great sexual chemistry

Sex isn’t everything in a relationship. But you’re kidding yourself if it’s not important. A good sex life is essential to a healthy, long-lasting relationship. Sometimes you can be physically attracted to a woman but not enjoy the sex with her. I’m not religious and I do respect everyone’s religious beliefs. But I have always disagreed with some couples waiting until marriage to have sex.

What happens if you get married to her and then find out the sex is really bad after you get married? A marriage without a good sex life is not a happy marriage. I don’t know any married men or women that are happy because they have a lot of fun with their spouse outside the bedroom but not inside the bedroom. Sex is vital to a long-lasting relationship. If she’s good in the sack, that’s a good sign you’ll have a happy marriage with her.

A good sex life is essential to a healthy, long-lasting relationship

A good sex life is essential to a healthy, long-lasting relationship

Is She Truly “The One”? Or is She Just The One That’s “There” Right Now?

Before reading through this post, I have a favor of you. I want you to be completely honest with yourself right now. If you’re currently in a relationship or dating someone, what was your dating situation before her? Had it been months or even years in between dates? Now that we have that out of the way, was this girl the only one you were dating when you met her or were you going out on dates with other women?


The reason I’m asking these questions is because the answers to them will help you decide if your girl truly is “the one” once you’ve finished reading this article. It’s only natural for someone that has gone a long period of time in between relationships to fall hard for the first woman he meets. I’ve seen it happen a million times. A guy that’s been single for 3 years finally meets a girl. He falls hard for her right away because she’s the only one that’s shown him affection in ages. After a few months of dating, she leaves him for another guy and he’s left heartbroken.

I don’t have a definition of “the one”. We’re all looking for something different. However, some people often confuse lust and love. This is especially common with those that have been single for a long time. What happens when you fall hard for a woman that really isn’t your type? Eventually your personalities collide and the relationship crumbles.

You can meets a more girls

You can meets a more girls

You MUST date a woman that you have things in common with

I have a good friend that went more than 2 years without even a date. He got a brand new job and in his training class, there was a girl named Kristin that he thought was gorgeous. They were the same age so they naturally gravitated towards each other. They started going out to lunch together. My friend was so in love with this girl. She was nice to him all the time and he thought she was hot.

After a month or so, he gathered up the courage to ask her out on a date. She said yes. They dated for a month or so and all he could do was talk and think about her. He had fallen hard and fast for this girl. Here’s the problem – they really had nothing in common. He was big into sports, she hated sports. He liked comedy movies, she hated comedy movies. He didn’t like to dance, she loved going to the clubs to get her groove on. The only thing he REALLY liked about her (other than her looks) was that she had shown interest in him. He just didn’t realize this at the time. This relationship never lasted because she got bored. I felt bad for my friend, but this is one of the many reasons I prefer online dating to meeting women at work.

People prefer online dating to meeting women at work stations

People prefer online dating to meeting women at work stations

How well does she treat you?

Insecure men that lack self-esteem often just sit there and take it when a woman treats them like dirt. If your woman treats you like crap, she’s not right for you. Don’t ever let a woman push you around. If she’s constantly bitching at you, she’s not the one. She doesn’t truly love you. She loves knowing she has a personal whipping boy. These relationships either don’t last long or the guy ends up being miserable. You know you have a great woman if she treats you like the King of the Castle and will do anything for you.

How to Treat a Woman Like a Queen

After you’ve gone through meeting a woman online and charming her on a few dates, it’s time to focus on keeping her happy. How do you keep a woman happy? By treating her like a queen. As far as I’m concerned, it’s your job as a man to treat your woman like a queen. I work my butt off to keep my girl happy because I know if I don’t, someone else will. You must realize that you are replaceable. Any woman can easily go out and find someone else.

Every time you’re around your lady, you should consider it quality time. Keeping a woman happy isn’t about what you say to her – it’s how you act. You have to show a woman that you love her. You can’t just tell her that you do. Actions speak louder than words, as they say. Here are the ways I always treat my woman like a queen and how I’m able to keep her happy…

You can meeting a woman online

You can meeting a woman online

Never let her push you around

Early on in a relationship, your girl might test you out to see if she can push you around. It’s easy to just sit there and take it, but that’s not what she wants you to do. Don’t ever let a woman push you around. It shows her you’re weak, which is not attractive. Before you worry about treating her like a queen, make sure you don’t become her whipping boy.

If she asks, always say…”no, honey, your butt does NOT look big in those jeans”

Sometimes you’re supposed to lie to a woman. Never criticize her because of her weight or because her makeup looks bad. Women are often very insecure – even the prettiest ones. One minor negative comment about her looks can make her feel like crap for the next month. Watch what you say around your woman and how you comment on her looks. Instead of telling her that her butt looks big, try this…

Shower her with compliments

Women love receiving compliments, especially about their looks. No, not about the size of her rack. I’m talking about telling her that she looks pretty in the morning or that you really like her dress. Telling her that her ass looks sexy is something you should do when you’re getting it on. That doesn’t make her feel good about herself. Give her plenty of compliments, but don’t compliment her every 5 seconds. Your compliments will get annoying and you won’t seem genuine.

Women ass looks sexy

Women ass looks sexy

Do nice things for her when she least expects it

Obviously, you shouldn’t forget her birthday or to get her something for Valentine’s Day. You should also pick random days throughout the year to surprise her with a gift, breakfast in bed, or a weekend getaway. Women love a man that is spontaneous and random. It truly is the little things that count sometimes. If you’re surprising her from time to time, you’ll have her anxious to know what your next surprise will be. Maybe it will be a weekend trip to a secluded beach. Or maybe it will be pancakes in bed. Pick random activities and gifts and give them to her when she least expects them.

 Women love a man that is spontaneous and random

Women love a man that is spontaneous and random

It’s NOT Your Looks: You Just Have No Game

This post is for the guys out there that are struggling with online dating and think the reason is their looks. You’re not getting any responses to your emails and women aren’t contacting you. You must just be too damn ugly for any woman to be attracted to you. WRONG! I’ve yet to meet one guy that was too ugly to get a girlfriend. NOT ONE! I have, however, met plenty of guys that whine about not having a girlfriend but don’t realize it’s their own fault. I’m here to tell you that you CAN get a girlfriend. And not just any girl. I’m talking about a decent, at least halfway attractive, woman. Here’s how…

Stop being so negative

If you think you’re ugly, you are ugly. But you’re not ugly on the outside. You’re ugly on the inside because of your negative mindset. Negativity will prevent ANY guy from getting a girl. I don’t care if you’re a hot, sexy stud. If you’re negative, you won’t attract women. I know plenty of attractive men that hardly ever get women because they have a negative outlook on life.

 Attractive women

Attractive women

Build some confidence in yourself

Think women are most attracted to bright blue eyes and muscles? Think again! Confidence is, without question, the most important quality women look for in a man. If you don’t have confidence in yourself, you’re telling women that you’re not much of a catch. So why would they be interested in you? A guy with average looks can easily attract women if he has confidence.

Looking to women

Looking to women

Work on your appearance

Every girl I’ve ever known drools over tall, dark, and handsome men. Think Channing Tatum. So what? I drool over Jessica Simpson. It doesn’t mean I won’t date women that aren’t as hot as her. Hot guys are something women like to look at. What they really want, appearance-wise, is a man that takes care of himself. That means you should practice good hygiene, get a stylish haircut, and work hard to get into shape. You don’t have to be the best looking guy with most women. Sure, there are some shallow women out there. But most really just want a guy that takes care of himself.

 Hot guys

Hot guys

Build your social circle

Women are not attracted to loners. If you don’t have many friends, you need to go out and meet people. It’s not hard to meet people. Find groups of people that share similar interests and hobbies or go to church. Don’t be afraid to be the center of attention, as long as you aren’t acting like a fool. Be friendly to everyone you come in contact with and don’t have a smug personality. Be inviting and open to meeting all types of people. The more people you know, the more social-cred you will have with women.

Clear Signs It’s Time to Quit Pursuing Her

I’m going to save you a lot of potential heartbreak and frustration with this post. If you notice any of the signs listed below, you need to stop wasting your time chasing the girl. I know how difficult it is to admit to yourself that a girl you really like isn’t into you. Believe me, I’ve been in that situation one too many times. But sometimes you just have to suck it up and say, “to hell with her, I’m going to find someone else”. Don’t waste your time chasing a girl that doesn’t like you. Here are the signs at the 3 different stages in the dating game that she’s just not into you…

Before Meeting Her – Online Signs

Many women that you chat with online act interested initially. Then, all of a sudden, they start ignoring you. This is a pretty clear sign that she either lost interest in you or found someone more interesting. Let’s say you’ve been chatting with her on Instant Messenger for a bit. Every time you IM her, she responds right away and seems to enjoy the conversation. Then, one day, you send her a message and she doesn’t respond.

You send her another message the next day and she responds 20 minutes later but all she says is “hi”. In most cases, she lost interest in you but doesn’t have the balls to tell you this. She’s trying to drop hints so you’ll go away. Women that are interested in a guy will find time to chat with him. Try again the next time you’re online. If, by then, she hasn’t responded, just move on. Another tell-tale sign she’s not interested is if all of her answers to your IM’s and text messages are very short and she never uses any smiley faces.

You chat with online act interested initially.

You chat with online act interested initially.

First Date Signs You’re Not Getting a Second Date

Just because a woman appears interested in you online doesn’t mean she’ll be digging you once she meets you. Pay attention to the way she acts and interacts with you on the date. Did her smile appear genuine when you first met her? How fast is does she walk when you’re together? It’s a bad sign if she’s walking fast. This is her way of telling you she wants to get away from you as quickly as possible.

The biggest signs to look for are if she laughs at your jokes and if she looks you in the eyes. Women that are into a guy will always laugh at his jokes, even the lamest ones. Also, if she liked what she saw, she would have no problem making eye contact with you. A final clear sign she’s not into you is if she’s constantly texting her friends.

First Date Signs

First Date Signs

Signs From How She Acts FOLLOWING a First Date

This is where men screw up the most. They go on a date with a girl and think the date went perfectly when the girl didn’t feel the same way. Sometimes women act interested on a date when they really aren’t. This is their way of not being rude and telling you what they really think of you. It sucks when you are certain she was digging you and then find out she thought you were lame.

When you text a girl after a date and she doesn’t respond to it, you could be in trouble. Send her one more message or phone call the next day. If you still don’t receive a response, she didn’t like you. There’s nothing you can do to change her mind. If she does respond to your messages and continually has an excuse for why she can’t get together with you, again…she’s not interested.

First date: women act interested on a date

First date: women act interested on a date