It’s NOT Your Looks: You Just Have No Game

This post is for the guys out there that are struggling with online dating and think the reason is their looks. You’re not getting any responses to your emails and women aren’t contacting you. You must just be too damn ugly for any woman to be attracted to you. WRONG! I’ve yet to meet one guy that was too ugly to get a girlfriend. NOT ONE! I have, however, met plenty of guys that whine about not having a girlfriend but don’t realize it’s their own fault. I’m here to tell you that you CAN get a girlfriend. And not just any girl. I’m talking about a decent, at least halfway attractive, woman. Here’s how…

Stop being so negative

If you think you’re ugly, you are ugly. But you’re not ugly on the outside. You’re ugly on the inside because of your negative mindset. Negativity will prevent ANY guy from getting a girl. I don’t care if you’re a hot, sexy stud. If you’re negative, you won’t attract women. I know plenty of attractive men that hardly ever get women because they have a negative outlook on life.

 Attractive women

Attractive women

Build some confidence in yourself

Think women are most attracted to bright blue eyes and muscles? Think again! Confidence is, without question, the most important quality women look for in a man. If you don’t have confidence in yourself, you’re telling women that you’re not much of a catch. So why would they be interested in you? A guy with average looks can easily attract women if he has confidence.

Looking to women

Looking to women

Work on your appearance

Every girl I’ve ever known drools over tall, dark, and handsome men. Think Channing Tatum. So what? I drool over Jessica Simpson. It doesn’t mean I won’t date women that aren’t as hot as her. Hot guys are something women like to look at. What they really want, appearance-wise, is a man that takes care of himself. That means you should practice good hygiene, get a stylish haircut, and work hard to get into shape. You don’t have to be the best looking guy with most women. Sure, there are some shallow women out there. But most really just want a guy that takes care of himself.

 Hot guys

Hot guys

Build your social circle

Women are not attracted to loners. If you don’t have many friends, you need to go out and meet people. It’s not hard to meet people. Find groups of people that share similar interests and hobbies or go to church. Don’t be afraid to be the center of attention, as long as you aren’t acting like a fool. Be friendly to everyone you come in contact with and don’t have a smug personality. Be inviting and open to meeting all types of people. The more people you know, the more social-cred you will have with women.