A woman can meet a guy and think he’s cool and may be even slightly attractive. Does that mean she’ll want to date him? Absolutely not. Women classify a man – shortly after meeting him in person – either as a potential boyfriend or a potential friend. It’s all based on how you present yourself to her, how you act around her, and the vibe she gets from you.
The problem many guys have is they simply are not boyfriend material. They’re nice guys that women would enjoy spending time with, but not in a romantic way. If you’re not boyfriend material, you can do something about that. After reading this article, you’ll know exactly how to avoid the friend zone and start convincing women you’d make an excellent romantic partner.
Dress like you’re trying to impress her
If you’re hanging out with a friend, you probably don’t care much about the way you look. I certainly don’t care what my friends think of my attire. I’m not trying to get down their pants. If you don’t show up for a date dressed like a freakin’ stud, she’ll immediately reject you as a romantic partner.
Looks aren’t everything in a relationship. In fact, looks are only a small part of a relationship – unless she’s a stuck-up, shallow bitch. But women want to date men that dress well. It shows them that you care about your appearance the way you look for them. You can’t do anything about your God-given looks. But you can make yourself more attractive to women simply by improving upon your style and taking care of yourself. If you’re not concerned with your appearance, women won’t be concerned with having a relationship with you.
Put down the video games and Star Wars action figures
I guarantee you aren’t a bigger Star Wars and video game geek than I am. I play World of Warcraft like it’s going out of style. However, you don’t have to drag me away from my video games in order to take a woman out to dinner. Nor will you ever catch me inviting a girl that I like over to pwn no0bz!
Women date men that are mature. As much as I love video games, I can admit it’s not the most mature hobby. You need to be a well-rounded guy in order to impress women. If you spend every waking hour “using the force”, why would any decent woman want to date you? Even women that are also into Star Wars and video games don’t want men that sit around the house all day. I’ve never met a woman that was interested in dating a man that sat around playing games all day. I’ve known plenty that will hangout with this type of guy, but only as friends. Do you want to pwn no0bz with her or have sex with her? It’s your choice.
Learn to be romantic and sweet
If you don’t know how to display a feminine side, you’ll never become anything more than friend material for women. You’ll be that guy women go to when they need a buddy to watch a movie with in the middle of the day or to complain about their douchebag boyfriend to.
When you’re around women you like, don’t be afraid to let out that sweet, caring side I know you have deep down. Open doors for her. Hold her hand when you’re walking. Give her your jacket if it’s chilly outside. Flirt with her and make light physical contact with her. When I’m around the fellas, I never act this way. I’m not suggesting you should. On a date with a cute girl…damn right I will!