You can’t ever be sure early on in a relationship that you’ll end up marrying the woman you’re dating. Well, unless you’re a celebrity and get married a week after you start dating as a publicity stunt. But for us normal folk, we can only hope a young relationship lasts forever…or at least until divorce! However, there are some early signs that, if the relationship lasts, she would make an excellent wife. Those signs are…
She has her act together
She has a job, doesn’t live with her folks, and takes good care of her kids (if she has kids). She doesn’t have a history of getting in trouble with the law and hasn’t accumulated massive debt, which she has no ability to pay back. The reason I bring up her finances is because some women are gold diggers. If they have an insane amount of debt and no way to pay it off on their own, you have to be cautious with her. Don’t let a woman take advantage of you. I will only get involved with women that have their act together.
I’m not looking for a woman that gets into fights, deals drugs, neglects her children, or still lives with Mommy and Daddy. I want a real, grown up woman that is going somewhere in life. She doesn’t have to be rich or even have a high-paying job. I don’t need or want her money. I just want to know that she’s not a bum with no aspirations or motivation.
You can have fun around her
Despite the ridiculous divorce rates in the United States anymore, I would assume you’re hoping “till death do us part” holds true. My brother was recently married and we were talking what he loves most about his wife. He mentioned that they can always have a good time together. They have so much in common that they’re always able to do things together.
Once you’re married, you’re going to spend most of your time away from work with her. Even when you go out with friends, she’ll usually tag along. That’s just how it works in most marriages. It’s very important that you have a lot in common and enjoy many of the same activities. If you don’t, it will be hard to have a long-lasting relationship with her. Eventually you’ll get bored of each other.
You have great sexual chemistry
Sex isn’t everything in a relationship. But you’re kidding yourself if it’s not important. A good sex life is essential to a healthy, long-lasting relationship. Sometimes you can be physically attracted to a woman but not enjoy the sex with her. I’m not religious and I do respect everyone’s religious beliefs. But I have always disagreed with some couples waiting until marriage to have sex.
What happens if you get married to her and then find out the sex is really bad after you get married? A marriage without a good sex life is not a happy marriage. I don’t know any married men or women that are happy because they have a lot of fun with their spouse outside the bedroom but not inside the bedroom. Sex is vital to a long-lasting relationship. If she’s good in the sack, that’s a good sign you’ll have a happy marriage with her.