Back in my early days of online dating, I was a master at scoring dates. I could log-in at darn near any time and set-up dates with women like it was going out of style. That was all fine and dandy, but it didn’t get me far with women. I truly sucked at impressing a woman on a first date. Rarely did I ever score a second date. Then I decided to change my ways. I was tired of meeting women once and never hearing from them again. There were 4 areas I needed to improve on – conversation, dress, sex, and the place(s) to take women on a first date. Ever since then, I’ve had no problem keeping a woman interested in me beyond the first date.
Where to take a woman on a first date
Dinner and a movie is beyond lame. It’s one of the worst first date ideas ever. How can you get to know a woman in a movie theater? You should spend the first date chatting, not staring at a movie screen. Going out to dinner is fine, given the restaurant has a nice, comfortable environment with good food. Don’t take her to some fast-food joint or a buffet. Pick a place with an intimate atmosphere that’s not too loud. You don’t want to have to scream to hear each other. After dinner, if she’s feeling you, try to get her back to your place. If you’re unsure, find a nice, cozy bar where you can chat and work your game to get her back to your place before the end of the night.
Conversation that will impress ANY female
First date conversation should mostly be about her. Let her speak. Women like to hear themselves talk. They also like it when a man shows her that he’s paying attention. Be in complete control of the conversation, but serve as mostly a moderator. You bring up the subjects and let her share her experiences. Don’t just ramble on about yourself. If she’s interested in you, she’ll ask you plenty of questions. You MUST listen to what she has to say. Follow up her comments and questions with your own witty comments related to the topic.
How to dress to impress
Where you go and how you converse with a woman on a first date won’t matter if you show up dressed like a slob. Or dressed unattractively. What you wear says more about who you are than anything that comes out of your mouth. She’ll make an immediate judgment about your character the moment she sees you. And most of that assumption will be based on what you’re wearing. Button-down shirts with a collar and a nice pair of jeans should suffice. The clothes should not be too baggy or too tight.
Sex on a first date: if you should ask for it and how to get it
This is a touchy subject. You never know for sure if she’ll be comfortable having sex on a first date. And you never know for sure if she won’t be. Some women specifically say they won’t sleep with a man on a first date. In many cases, she’s trying to make you think she’s not a slut. But the truth is, if you play your cards right, you might get her in the mood to change her mind. I don’t always have sex on a first date. It depends on how I’m feeling and how she’s feeling about me. Look for obvious signs that she’s digging you. If you’re certain she’s into you and you want to get laid, offer to bring her back to your place. It’s usually assumed that if a woman comes back, you’re going to have sex. They rarely go back to a guy’s house if they don’t also want to get laid.