I’m going to save you a lot of potential heartbreak and frustration with this post. If you notice any of the signs listed below, you need to stop wasting your time chasing the girl. I know how difficult it is to admit to yourself that a girl you really like isn’t into you. Believe me, I’ve been in that situation one too many times. But sometimes you just have to suck it up and say, “to hell with her, I’m going to find someone else”. Don’t waste your time chasing a girl that doesn’t like you. Here are the signs at the 3 different stages in the dating game that she’s just not into you…
Before Meeting Her – Online Signs
Many women that you chat with online act interested initially. Then, all of a sudden, they start ignoring you. This is a pretty clear sign that she either lost interest in you or found someone more interesting. Let’s say you’ve been chatting with her on Instant Messenger for a bit. Every time you IM her, she responds right away and seems to enjoy the conversation. Then, one day, you send her a message and she doesn’t respond.
You send her another message the next day and she responds 20 minutes later but all she says is “hi”. In most cases, she lost interest in you but doesn’t have the balls to tell you this. She’s trying to drop hints so you’ll go away. Women that are interested in a guy will find time to chat with him. Try again the next time you’re online. If, by then, she hasn’t responded, just move on. Another tell-tale sign she’s not interested is if all of her answers to your IM’s and text messages are very short and she never uses any smiley faces.
First Date Signs You’re Not Getting a Second Date
Just because a woman appears interested in you online doesn’t mean she’ll be digging you once she meets you. Pay attention to the way she acts and interacts with you on the date. Did her smile appear genuine when you first met her? How fast is does she walk when you’re together? It’s a bad sign if she’s walking fast. This is her way of telling you she wants to get away from you as quickly as possible.
The biggest signs to look for are if she laughs at your jokes and if she looks you in the eyes. Women that are into a guy will always laugh at his jokes, even the lamest ones. Also, if she liked what she saw, she would have no problem making eye contact with you. A final clear sign she’s not into you is if she’s constantly texting her friends.
Signs From How She Acts FOLLOWING a First Date
This is where men screw up the most. They go on a date with a girl and think the date went perfectly when the girl didn’t feel the same way. Sometimes women act interested on a date when they really aren’t. This is their way of not being rude and telling you what they really think of you. It sucks when you are certain she was digging you and then find out she thought you were lame.
When you text a girl after a date and she doesn’t respond to it, you could be in trouble. Send her one more message or phone call the next day. If you still don’t receive a response, she didn’t like you. There’s nothing you can do to change her mind. If she does respond to your messages and continually has an excuse for why she can’t get together with you, again…she’s not interested.