We all know every woman drools over a tall, dark, handsome man. I don’t blame them. Hey, I want to date Megan Fox. But that’s not going to happen. Every women has her ideal man and it’s usually a muscular guy with confidence, a great smile, a sensitive side, nice hair, and style. However, only a small percentage of women actually date this type of man.
A Jersey Shore Wannabe
You’ve probably seen at least one episode of the Jersey Shore on MTV. The guys on that show are buff, confident, cocky, and total manwhores. They can walk outside and start picking out women to hookup with. Good for them. The women they’re hooking up with, on many occasions, have great bodies and pretty faces. These women have nothing else in life going for them. The guys on Jersey Shore are nothing more than eye candy for women. If you act like they do, no decent woman would want anything to do with you.
A Total Pushover
Being nice and sweet to a woman is fine. Being a total pushover is not. Women will not date men they don’t respect. They want a guy that is nice, but also isn’t afraid to stand up for himself. If she knows she can walk all over you because you’re TOO nice and never disagree with anything she says, she won’t find you attractive. Be a man and stand-up for what you feel is right.
A Man That is Not On Her Level
When I’m talking about being on her level, I mean the entire package – looks, personality, money. This doesn’t mean a hot babe won’t date an average looking guy. It just means that you need to have something of value to offer her equal to what she has to offer you. So if she’s wealthy, you better have an amazing personality, great looks, or equal wealth. Women will date down in terms of looks, but they won’t date down in terms of overall package.
A Man That is Out of Her League
Like I said, women fantasize about that tall, dark, handsome man. But most women would actually prefer dating someone equal to them in terms of looks and personality. Their thought process is if they are dating a man way out of their league, he’s likely to cheat. A man that knows he can do better will always be pressured to cheat on a woman that has less to offer in a relationship than he does.
A Man That Doesn’t Believe in Himself
If you can’t sell yourself on the idea of you being a great guy, you won’t sell yourself effectively to women. Confidence is the #1 trait women look for in a man. A guy that lacks confidence is not attractive. Confidence is the best way to overcome any physical flaws you might have. You have to convince yourself you’re a great guy before women will start to believe it. And once you do, they will.